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    Quote Originally Posted by mrnutt View Post
    thanks chaps, its hard but we are going to separate and live apart for a while (still a huge ball ache to uproot my life) but over the last few days I have realised we both need this not just her and if we are to work out down the line then this probably is needed now.

    I am still working my mind on the basis that thats it its over and now I need to look after me for a bit and work on me for a bit.

    I hope everyone else dealing with this at the moment stays strong and can work things out
    Just remember Ross and Rachel if you have any desire to get back together
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    Things just got worse.
    After a valentines day where everything was my side with no effort from her, putting us back on shaky ground. Her mum suddenly died. Mental health shot to pieces.
    Such a bad year so far.

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    Oh blimey. When it rains it pours. Hope you can weather the storm and it passes quickly now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kickback View Post
    Things just got worse.
    After a valentines day where everything was my side with no effort from her, putting us back on shaky ground. Her mum suddenly died. Mental health shot to pieces.
    Such a bad year so far.
    i can really sympathise with this, my wife lost an auntie in early Jan and a family friend is on the very edge with Kidney failure. Fingers crossed for you @Kickback

    As for the Ross and Rachel idea, this is a possibility - we met to chat over the weekend and we are both on the same page about things which is good and there is still love there but that time apart is what she needs now and on relfection I need as well.

    Started the new home hunt this week and have an offer in on a flat locally as she wants me to stay nearby and I think staying nearby is worth it with work etc.

    Its all pretty shit and i'm losing everything but I can make it through and i'm lucky to have amazing friends and family and also forums like this - the power of cigars is an amazing thing

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    Sounds like a herf's in order...

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    well it looks like I have found a new place to live....now to get through London referencing which is looking a total ball ache

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    London referencing?
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    Seemingly the agents here don't care about guarantors and outside money, only what you earn... makes things quite hard

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    All people care about in London is money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kickback View Post
    All people care about in London is money.

    Seemingly so, but through some work, we've got the landlord to agree to everything we wanted so this is a good move in the right direction, won't believe it until I have a signed contract mind

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