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  • Glad to hear it mate! Onward and upward. So to speak...
    Stay smoky

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    • Great to hear it?s tuning out OK.

      The only way is up from here on [emoji106][emoji3]


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      • Originally posted by jerryr View Post
        Great to hear it?s tuning out OK.

        The only way is up from here on [emoji106][emoji3]


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        As quoted from Jazz! Indeed onwards & upwards mate, as least you'll have a peaceful Christmas, once you have agreed a schedule for the Children's visits. Are your houses close enough for them to walk/ bike to on their own?
        Simon Bolivar: Liberator of Bolivia, Ecuador, Peru & Venezuela.

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        • Have a December schedule agreed. Kids with me on xmas day this year which is nice.
          As for distance to her new house it's 10 miles so not commutable for my girls and there's no direct bus.
          Mind you it's close enough for me.

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          • Originally posted by Simon Bolivar View Post
            As quoted from Jazz! Indeed onwards & upwards mate, as least you'll have a peaceful Christmas, once you have agreed a schedule for the Children's visits. Are your houses close enough for them to walk/ bike to on their own?
            Yazz Simon, they're probably too young to remember anyway.
            'Cigars are a hobby, cigarettes an addiction'

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            • Originally posted by PeeJay View Post
              Yazz Simon, they're probably too young to remember anyway.
              Ha, you're probably right John.

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              Simon Bolivar: Liberator of Bolivia, Ecuador, Peru & Venezuela.

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              • I do remember the blond Yazz especially from the Labour party conference. It was a bit after my time which was the 80s.
                To those who've offered cigar parcels I must say an open thank you for the kind offers. I'm genuinely touched but I'd rather make some purchases than get free cigars just because of sharing my misfortune on here.
                Suffice to say there is a herf in the back of my mind at chez moi next year so I'm sure there will be an opportunity to meet such kind hearted individuals as frequent this forum. Unless you get a nose bleed travelling further north than Watford.

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                • After a pretty crappy 18 months in my marriage, relationship counselling and individual counselling for me, I'm viewing a 1 bed flat this afternoon. I don't really want to go into too many details, but just wanted to share where I'm at. Although I am under no illusion that separating is going to be easy, I am really hopeful about the future and feel better about myself than I have ever done. I've asked [MENTION=1]Deano[/MENTION] if I can put a few boxes up for sale as I am going to have some additional unplanned expenses in the near future, so watch this space.

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                  Last edited by moteyi; 03-02-2020, 12:38 PM.

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                  • Originally posted by moteyi View Post
                    After a pretty crappy 18 months in my marriage, relationship counselling and individual counselling for me (apparently my wife thinks that for her it would be a waste of her time and money) I'm viewing a 1 bed flat this afternoon. I don't really want to go into too many details, but just wanted to share where I'm at. Although I am under no illusion that separating is going to be easy, I am really hopeful about the future and feel better about myself than I have ever done. I've asked [MENTION=1]Deano[/MENTION] if I can put a few boxes up for sale as I am going to have some additional unplanned expenses in the near future, so watch this space.

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                    Sorry to hear that mate. Best of luck to you.

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                    • Hey Steve....keep your head up mate...I'm sure it easier said than done...hope things are still civil between you both..

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                      • It?s always sad to hear but it does sound like your heads in a good place.

                        Plus for me one of the great things about a cigar is it takes you away from everything sometimes and can give us the head space we really need


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                        • Originally posted by moteyi View Post
                          After a pretty crappy 18 months in my marriage, relationship counselling and individual counselling for me (apparently my wife thinks that for her it would be a waste of her time and money) I'm viewing a 1 bed flat this afternoon. I don't really want to go into too many details, but just wanted to share where I'm at. Although I am under no illusion that separating is going to be easy, I am really hopeful about the future and feel better about myself than I have ever done. I've asked @Deano if I can put a few boxes up for sale as I am going to have some additional unplanned expenses in the near future, so watch this space. Sent from my SM-G930F using Tapatalk
                          Really sorry to hear that, Steve.

                          I'm sure all the 'Guildford Herf crew' will agree - just say if/when you fancy a few communal sticks.

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                          • Hi Steve, Hope the counselling helps you come to terms with the situation. I assume the 1bed flat is a financial necessity but does that mean you wouldn't be able to have your children stay over?
                            Simon Bolivar: Liberator of Bolivia, Ecuador, Peru & Venezuela.

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                            • Originally posted by moteyi View Post
                              After a pretty crappy 18 months in my marriage, relationship counselling and individual counselling for me (apparently my wife thinks that for her it would be a waste of her time and money) I'm viewing a 1 bed flat this afternoon. I don't really want to go into too many details, but just wanted to share where I'm at. Although I am under no illusion that separating is going to be easy, I am really hopeful about the future and feel better about myself than I have ever done. I've asked @Deano if I can put a few boxes up for sale as I am going to have some additional unplanned expenses in the near future, so watch this space.

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                              Ahh, sorry to hear that mate. But on a positive note, a bed is not a priority: first thing think single or double humidor

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                              • Sorry to hear this [MENTION=13462005]moteyi[/MENTION] Hope things work out for the best, whatever happens.

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