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  • #16
    Originally posted by geoffbot View Post
    Cheers chaps.



    Yeah 2 years living apart (needs proof), adultery, or unreasonable behaviour on one party only. FYI to anyone doing it - save yourself a possible £96 and just put adultery - it doesn't matter! Courts don't care, financial settlement aren't affected.

    An M4 on lease would be like £900 a month 😂

    2nd hand on pcp purchase is what I would do - more like £500. And you can sell it at any time, unlike a lease where you're locked in.

    I do have a job offer I'm waiting to be taken off ice as soon as the company's hiring freeze is lifted so I should be okay.
    £900 - yeah scrap that idea !!!

    PCP works well especially if your new role includes a car allowance.

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    • #17
      Sounds like you're happy enough with the change. Just be aware some women can start out saying they want a mutual equal separation then later decide equal means they want half of everything of yours (including premarital) and also keep all of theirs.
      Hope yours stays sensible and simple.

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      • #18
        Originally posted by Kickback View Post
        Sounds like you're happy enough with the change. Just be aware some women can start out saying they want a mutual equal separation then later decide equal means they want half of everything of yours (including premarital) and also keep all of theirs.
        Hope yours stays sensible and simple.
        Yes - thank you. I was not aware of this until a few weeks ago! Spousal maintenance wtf. Child maintenance I get. My mate is getting divorced and his genuinely lovely wife has turned into a psychopathic demon. We shall get a financial concent order once we have our decree nici. I'm giving her 70% of the value of the house cos I'm nice, so I'm pretty safe, but still. Weirdly my solicitor wants to charge me £1500 for the concent letter but it seems I can get one online for like £99? Why don't they teach you this stuff in school as opposed to trigonometry urgh
        Stay smoky

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        • #19
          Originally posted by geoffbot View Post

          Yes - thank you. I was not aware of this until a few weeks ago! Spousal maintenance wtf. Child maintenance I get. My mate is getting divorced and his genuinely lovely wife has turned into a psychopathic demon. We shall get a financial concent order once we have our decree nici. I'm giving her 70% of the value of the house cos I'm nice, so I'm pretty safe, but still. Weirdly my solicitor wants to charge me £1500 for the concent letter but it seems I can get one online for like £99? Why don't they teach you this stuff in school as opposed to trigonometry urgh
          What?! Why would they teach us about solicitors, taxation, loans interest rates when they could be teaching useful shit like soh cah toa, i before e except after c and playing the recorder?!


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          • #20
            Originally posted by simwells View Post

            What?! Why would they teach us about solicitors, taxation, loans interest rates when they could be teaching useful shit like soh cah toa, i before e except after c and playing the recorder?!


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            WTF is soh cah toa?
            'Cigars are a hobby, cigarettes an addiction'

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            • #21
              Originally posted by PeeJay View Post

              WTF is soh cah toa?
              Trig

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              • #22
                Originally posted by geoffbot View Post

                Yes - thank you. I was not aware of this until a few weeks ago! Spousal maintenance wtf. Child maintenance I get. My mate is getting divorced and his genuinely lovely wife has turned into a psychopathic demon. We shall get a financial concent order once we have our decree nici. I'm giving her 70% of the value of the house cos I'm nice, so I'm pretty safe, but still. Weirdly my solicitor wants to charge me £1500 for the concent letter but it seems I can get one online for like £99? Why don't they teach you this stuff in school as opposed to trigonometry urgh
                £1500 sounds like a bargain, my divorce cost me at least £15,000 and I only got 30% of the house but I kept the business and my pension. Kids are adults, although neither has finished studying and are still semi dependent, which falls on me.

                I hope it stays cordial with you.


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                • #23
                  I feel your pain. As it goes I got married in Vegas by an Elvis impersonator, cost more than £5er but he did a few songs (I’m pretty sure he was out of his tree on something truly Elvis style) Fast forward 2 months & ex tried to knife me, sounds like I got off lightly, financially speaking that is 😂😂😂

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                  • #24


                    Originally posted by smokey joe View Post
                    Fast forward 2 months & ex tried to knife me
                    C'mon mate.... Don't leave us hanging 😂 Why? What? Where etc etc

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                    • #25
                      Aaaand yesterday I got caught speeding and 'dangerous driving' (bs) so that'll be a ban and possibly jail time. Fml 🤣🤣
                      Stay smoky

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                      • #26
                        Originally posted by geoffbot View Post
                        Aaaand yesterday I got caught speeding and 'dangerous driving' (bs) so that'll be a ban and possibly jail time. Fml 🤣🤣
                        How fast were you going?!

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                        I think I may finally have this CAD under control...

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                        • #27
                          Gah, that’s doesn’t help the situation much,
                          I hope it’s not too bad for you buddy.


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                          • #28
                            Originally posted by ha_banos View Post

                            How fast were you going?!

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                            She didn't say so I'm hoping she didn't get me which is why she's going for dangerous driving which is at her descretion I think. Maybe 80. In a 40. She admitted herself it was a crisp clear morning with bi traffic (Sunday 7am) on bodycam so I'm hoping that'll help.
                            Stay smoky

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                            • #29
                              80 in a 40 is not going to be good news for you.

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                              • #30
                                Originally posted by Kickback View Post
                                80 in a 40 is not going to be good news for you.
                                ☹️


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