Separation

[Emaresee]

Quick update.
Date for her moving out is imminent which will be one great step for a less stressful life for me. She's become really horrible, lying, kniving. A real narcissistic tyrant.
I'm hoping end of the month will see her gone.
End of month is also the time I have my ENT consultation to see if I have the big C or something else is going on.
No cigars for me for ages and none sitting in my humidor. No point if I get bad news.
So December should see how my future looks and I hope it's much better than the rest of my 50th year has been.
Cheers all.

Best of luck on all fronts- don?t let either eventuality beat you


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[Kickback]

Quick update.
Date for her moving out is imminent which will be one great step for a less stressful life for me. She's become really horrible, lying, kniving. A real narcissistic tyrant.
I'm hoping end of the month will see her gone.
End of month is also the time I have my ENT consultation to see if I have the big C or something else is going on.
No cigars for me for ages and none sitting in my humidor. No point if I get bad news.
So December should see how my future looks and I hope it's much better than the rest of my 50th year has been.
Cheers all.

[Kickback]

Err wedding dress size is no indicator of current size.

[jerryr]

But when you're ready to start looking for love again I'm told the new method is to look at Facebook Marketplace for second hand wedding dresses in your area thereby identifying all the newly single women in your area then filter by dress size.

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[PeeJay]

But when you're ready to start looking for love again I'm told the new method is to look at Facebook Marketplace for second hand wedding dresses in your area thereby identifying all the newly single women in your area then filter by dress size.

[mrnutt]

As hard as it may be and probably will be at times, always try to be the bigger person, longer term you'll thank yourself for it.

Surround yourself with friends and family and enjoy the alone time as well, its good for heart, mind and soul. Get a cigar going and give your self time to reflect and work things out in your head.

[Simon Bolivar]

Hoping all is going as smoothly as these things can, guess the positive is now the kids know - the is out of the bag &the only way is fwd. Try to any neg comments about your Ex to them &hopefully she'll play ball too.

[Kickback]

Thanks all. Sometimes things go too fast and other things go too slow.
I do try and focus on the future where my girls and I have special times on our own to make their memories. Whilst they're not here I'm looking forward to the solitude and my time plus a few social things with friends family and herfing.

[mrnutt]

Hang in there! There will be hurdles to get over but keep running and jumping and you’ll get there my friend

[jerryr]

Hardest day of my life.
Kids are superstars and are remarkably accepting after initial shock and grief. Long way to go but my kids are the best.

Hang on in there it gets easier


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[Emaresee]

Hardest day of my life.
Kids are superstars and are remarkably accepting after initial shock and grief. Long way to go but my kids are the best.

Hang tough - we’re all rooting for you brother

[Kickback]

Hardest day of my life.
Kids are superstars and are remarkably accepting after initial shock and grief. Long way to go but my kids are the best.

[mrnutt]

[MENTION=13469242]Kickback[/MENTION] sorry to hear that things haven't been able to work out, but I can say that time is a healer and every day will get better going forward. Fantadtic to hear about your running and weight loss. Big Props to you on that.

Just try and keep as level a head as possible and enjoy looking forward to the future, there will be great times and hard times ahead but you've already come this far there's nothing to stop you now.

A quick update on my situation, myself and my wife are now back together and making wholesale changes to our lives together, still taking things slowly and living apart (sort of, she spends most of her time at mine now) but things can work out in different ways I guess. I was worried she was doing this for a knee jerk reaction but its been 2 months and there's no signs of that.

either way we all need to keep working towards the light at the end of that tunnel which every one it may be and make sure there's a t least a few cigars to be had along the way!

[Kickback]

Thanks all.
Just deleted most my post.
Probably not wise posting detail on here.

[Simon Bolivar]

See things are moving along, sure the pain, emotional & financial, will last a long time but losing 22kg is a hell of an achievement & I think that alone shows your commitment to the new you. Brace yourself for telling the family - no easy way but I'd hope you can do it together & the usual advice is try not to say anything negative about the ex to your kids. That must be the hardest thing but in the end they'll have a better appreciation of what you went through & hopefully try to stay neutral themselves.
When you're in a position to buy a few smokes send me a PM, I have some lined up for you!